There are many ways to connect with spirits, and there are just as many by which we can help foster hte growth of a budding relationship. One of my favorite methds for working with and honoring a specific spirit is to create them their very own home. The building of these homes, which are generally called spirit houses, can be found in many different cultures around the world. Perhaps one of the best known examples come from Thailand. Here, people construct dwellings known as san phra phrum that are often placed on or near one’s property. Another example comes from Iceland, where you will find quaint miniature homes known as alfhol, which are built for the purpose of houseing hte Huldufolk, or elven folk. Universally, spirit houses are created in order to provide ethereal creatures with shelter in hopes that they might in turn bestow protection, luck, abundance, or other blessings. Depending upon the temperament of the spirit, these houses are also believed to help keep unruly beings busy, and thus preventing them frm causing chaos elsewhere.
Today, whenever I want to create a more permanent structure, I will often tulize the small, plain birdhouses which you can find at most craft stores. These pinewood birdhouses come in a variety of shapes and sizes and are typically pretty inexpensive. Because of their bare-bones design, the birdhouses can be decorated in an endless variety of ways even better if done in accordance to the spirit’s preferences. I recommend using natural items such as moss, twigs, rocks, bark, shells, and bones to adorn the structure. Additionally, the house can be filled with attractive baubles such as small bells, colorful knotted cords or ribbons, mirror disks, vibrant glass beads, and shiny coins. These items are meant to entertain the spirit and provide them with a beautiful environment, which they are sure to enjoy.
When completed, a spirit house can be placed in a sacred or special spot indoors or outdoors. If placeing hte house inside, you might want to rest it upon an altar and set candles and bowls for offerings nearby. Make sure, though. to keep the area around the house neat and tidy, including dusting away dirt and keeping away any clutter. If placing the house outside, you could very well build it into your garden or put it on an outdoor alatar. However, depending upon the location and the materials used to bulid the house, be prepared for it to slowly break down over time as it’s exposed to the elements.
Creating a Spirit House
If there is a particular otherworldly being that you work with who you believe would enjoy having a space of their own, you can try your hand at buildilng a spirit house.
You will need:
- Plain wooden birdhouse. You can find unfinished pine birdhouses in various shapes and sizes at most craft stores.
- Paint or wood stain in any colors you so desire
- Brushes or rags to apply paint or stain
- Wood burner (optional)
- Natural decorations (moss, twigs, rocks, bark, shells, bones, etc.)
- Hot glue gun or other sturdy fixative
- Attractive baubles (small bells, colorful knotted cords or ribbons, mirror disks, vibrant glass beads, shiny coins, etc.)
Begin by applying an even layer of paint or stain to your house, allowing ample time for it to dry before applying a second coat if need be. Once the house has been painted or stained, you may wish to add different symbols, such as any sigil associated with teh spirit who will reside within the house, using additional paint or with a wood burner. Next, use the hot glue gun or with fixative to add natural elements to the house. For example, you might with to glue a layer of moss on the roof or create siding using twigs or rocks. Finally, fill the house with attractive baubles by passing them through the entrance hole. Don’t worry if these items fall inside haphazardly, as this will only add to the spirit’s joy and entertainment.
Ritual to Enchant Your Spirit House
When your spirit house is ready to be inhabited, you can perform the following riutal to bless and enchant the home, effectively inviting hte spirit to take up residence.
You will need:
- Your spirit house
- White votive candle
- Offering (a bit of bread, honey, whiskey, or whatever else your spirit may have a preference for)
Begin by placing your spirit house in its designated spot, such as upon your altar, by your front door, or soe other auspicious location. Next, place the votive candle to one side of the house (be careful, making sure not to put it too close!) and hte offering on the other. Now, light the candle, which will act as a magical beacon to draw the intended spirit to its new house. As hte candle burns, recite hte following incantation thrice:
I built this house, both fine and best, For a kindly spirit to dwell and rest. That it may be their rightful home, IA living space to call their own.
Close your eyes and reach out to your spirit ally, informing them of the new space that you have created just for them. Invite the spirit to inhabit the house and to make it tehir own. Then, once you feel ready, open your eyes. You will want to give the spirit some space in order for them to enter the house and explore a bit. Although, you will want to be nearby so that you can keep an eye on the burning candle! The candle should burn for an hour (or less if it naturally burns out), at which time you may extinguish it. If, for whatever reason, your spirit has not found its way to their new house, perform the ritual again the following night.